My name is Gregory Paul Saunders.
I am a family man, and father of four.
Aside from Art of Relating, I host The Sovereign’s Way – which shares knowledge and tools to help people resolve controversy and govern themselves outside of systems and enclosures. I also host Private Life – which offers programs and consultancy to help men structure their own service-based lives and businesses beyond the influence, levies or oversight of evil systems & actors.
My journey with mastering the art of relating has been extreme to say the least…
Here I share a little about it.
I was born the son of a very smart, manically depressed, common-law-loving police officer, and a genuinely good woman.
As a child I was irrepressibly positive about everything and until my late 20’s never had the experience of something failing. So when love came knocking, through a life-changing spiritual awakening at the age of 23, I gave myself to the process without a doubt that it would lead me to where I needed to go.

2005 - A spiritual awakening

It was falling in love that had triggered it. But it was just a trigger.
My heart was on fire and my whole body became light.
I could see and feel the energy fields of living things, and I knew and could feel things that I had no explanation for.
The day before it happened I had quite badly broken my elbow, and within a few days I was able to swim and move normally without pain.
Life was a dream for almost a year. My heart remained perpetually luminous, and I was everyone’s best friend. Work was a delight… and fruitful. I felt like I had discovered heaven on earth, and was sharing it everywhere I could.
But then something happened… a relationship. I knew from the beginning it wasn’t right for me, but I ignored the voice inside.
The next 10 years were spent freeing myself from all earthly and spiritual containers... while unwittingly binding myself deeper through a very unhealthy relationship.

2008 – COMING OUT OF BABYLON

Having discovered how society and the law really work, living in its foundational unrighteousness became intolerable, so I walked away from everything to find a more loving way to live.
I cancelled every direct debit and standing order, left behind my business, and didn’t touch any kind of money for over a year.
I knew the answers to being free lay in the law but, having studied every aspect of it for 10,000+ hours, still didn’t fully understand it.
So I dropped all the complicated approaches to ‘sovereignty’ I’d been dabbling with and decided to pioneer my own approach, both in and out of the UK court system. 
One based on the simplicity of following love, asking questions, and speaking what is true as a man. I mastered the art of peaceful lawful communication, hugged public servants and practised what I called ‘peaceful inhabitancy’.
I was arrested countless times for doing what I felt was right without regard to the laws of man. And, by the soft yet immovable approach of simply asking questions during the countless police interviews and interactions that ensued, transformed the way many of the men and women in the local police constabulary perceived and understood the law. For two years I did anything and everything possible to return love and integrity to every corner of the justice system.
I was dealing with our own cases too – mortgage, loans, etc. It was never about winning. It was about doing what was right and finding the truth… most of all it was about liberation. The thought never crossed my mind that we wouldn’t win too though.
But in the end we lost our home. With it we lost the whole homestead-style life that we had worked to create on our little corner of earth, upon which our entire moneyless existence was centred. We were 7 months pregnant with our first child when it happened. It was both devastating and incredibly liberating.

2011 – The 'great enlightenment'

Throughout that period, before losing the home, I had been engaged in an Advaita process involving 18 months of disciplined meditation. This coupled with the reality-shifting life choices I had been making culminated in a complete awakening beyond the self. 
In a single moment I popped out of the top of my person and was able to perceive all creation very clearly.
I had to re-learn how to relate with everything again without my ‘self’. And for the next year lived from that foundation with very few thoughts passing through my mind and no personal identification with the ones that did.

2012 - offshore without a paddle

A year later I moved overseas for almost 5 years, all the while working to create conscious community projects, put together free-energy tech deals, launch a tribunal for natural justice, and countless other projects. The whole time without exchanging my time or energy for money. I worked freely in service and used money on a gifting basis only.
I was ‘out’ of it all – the world, and my ‘self’. I was free…
Except I wasn’t.
While I had been doing all this, I had also been binding myself through my relating with women (one in particular) and bypassing the truth of the interpersonal dynamics running throughout my life.
Life continued… I traversed through paradisical Bali life involved in behind-the-scenes fringe global initiatives that you wouldn’t believe me about if I told you; delivered a baby in a mud hut on the banks of an Amazon tributary; suffered a daily battle of wills with a South American former drug-kingpin casino-boss; personally held multi-continental licenses for revolutionary breakthrough technologies worth sickening sums of money, and sat at the table to broker deals with the kind of influential people that would make your hair stand on end.
All in free service of the ‘new earth’, with a young family, and no safety net.
Much did I learn and discover through these years about the nature of life, law and the universe. But very little had I really learned about actual relating… with others, myself or God. Other than how not to do it. Or how to do it without being ‘a self’… without actually being me – a soul.

2016 – Death and light

The ending of my marriage brought no grief or sadness. It was incredibly freeing.
But I had a metric ton of unmet needs, and they led me head first into a trauma bond.
It happened because a few weeks after the ending of my marriage I connected with a woman who perfectly met every unmet need I had. 
The qualities of this new relationship, imbalanced as it was, allowed me to genuinely open to the light to a whole other level, and with it a much greater awareness of both my own soul and the spirit world (in particular the higher spheres), and because of that I gave myself to it fully, believing that such love and light would lift everyone connected to us.
But when the bubble popped, as was inevitable, a series of traumatic events occurred during the period of the fall that caused me to become trauma bonded.
And through it I lost everything.
This time I didn’t just lose my possessions, property, attachments, business etc. – the things that liberate one to lose.
This time I lost my children; I lost what felt like the love of my life; and (because this journey into the light had revealed to me the errors behind most of the ‘new earth’ projects I had been doing too, I had distanced myself from them as well, so) I also lost every form of purposeful expression I had as a man in the world.
I was completely alone. Everything had failed or fallen.

The perfect storm

For the next 7 years, both of these extremes co-existed and were seemingly tied together - a gateway to the heavens, and a trauma bond. 
Because this particular bond was formed in the wake of losing complete fulfilment, it remained unrecognisable to me for what it was (and thus inescapable) until both the causes of the unmet needs, and the distortions created during its formation, had ALL been resolved.
The physical circumstances surrounding it all made it that every imperfect move I made led to a growing weight of further trauma.
With no possible escape it felt that I had to continuously learn how to relate more perfectly within it, to master the art of relating – everywhere – or die.
No matter how brutal it got though, I just kept surrendering to it and allowing the situation to wash me clean.
And so continued to experience an indescribable amount of light throughout it all.
For the first two years I could count on my two hands the number of days that I didn’t cry for at least an hour. Sometime several. Occasionally in self-pity, but mostly releasing every stuck emotion and trauma that I held inside.
I cycled through the depths of all the terror, shame, guilt, anger, fear that I was carrying, and every cycle led to new experiences and journeys, on a daily basis, through the heights of the celestial heavens, in and out, over and over and over until I was renewed and spat out.

The blueprint for a straight man

From early on during this time I was the student of a very unique master of tantra & the tao. He was like no other living man I’ve met or heard of, then or since. He spoke no English, so I could learn only by feeling. He emanated the blueprint of a master man, and I visited him to absorb it. I returned back each time for the next piece of the blueprint whenever it felt I had finished integrating the last piece. I spent no more than 18 days with him in total physically, but he was present and available and reflecting by spirit for around four years.
Between he and the bonded relationship, I was given the blueprint for mastering the spirit and the crucible to perfect it.
And so, through this dance of mastering the art of relating to perfection with one woman and master, it became a comparative walk in the park to address every other aspect of relating in my life. 
Everywhere I could see or became aware of any kind of relational dynamic that didn’t feel completely and perfectly free and loving (family, friends, work, even institutions & governmental agencies), I took the steps, either within myself or with the other, to correct it.
Most people fell away. But some followed and allowed themselves to go through whatever emotions they needed to experience to also be able to relate freely, lovingly and unconditionally.
After three or so years I felt extremely clean and clear in myself, and the way I was relating with everyone in my reality had completely transformed. It felt very close to mastery.

2019 - rebirth

It was late 2019 and I was ready for the next stage of my life. I launched Law For Mankind to begin to share some of what I had learnt. By the end of 2020 it had become wildly successful.
I was extremely free and light… and grounded at the same time. I had a successful business; there were no unresolved legal or personal relationships pulling on me; I felt profoundly God-led; I was accomplished as a man, exclusively from helping others; I felt in control of my sexual energy, which was stable and strong; and I had extremely clean, free relating with those around me… I felt like I was my own man.
But this balance was arrived at as a single man, not alongside a woman so, when a new relationship began, before too long I bound myself in a host of new ways. 
A series of relational mistakes wrought some significant consequences, and one hellish situation after another lined up to navigate. But by continuing to surrender to the flow of what was happening and seeking always the Kingdom first, with each impossible challenge, the way I was able to relate with the woman in my life got brighter, cleaner and more perfect. 
Each new ‘cycle’ was so far beyond anything I had ever experienced with a woman before – always blindingly light, and feeling both free & completely as one.
These ‘cycles’ would only last a few weeks to month or so though. There was also always a sparkle to the 'marriage', and I had learnt by then that sparkles meant there was still clearing to be done before it would be able to properly stabilise and ground. 
So I continued on, allowing this simultaneously brutal and beautiful process of relational cycles to unfold, in faith that it would ultimately purify the spirit completely.
In the midst of these latter years I came to know Jesus.
It didn’t happen because I accepted him as my lord and saviour. It happened because I felt I’d like to meet him and wondered why in all the years I’d been sojourning through the spirit world since this all began I never had. I discovered it was because I simply didn’t feel worthy.
After about a year of allowing the many feelings that came with truth of that, he came and walked by my side. I cried for most of the walk, and over the course of the following months he helped me to grieve the repentance for the things I still hadn’t released.

Mastering the art of relating

These latter 8 years were filled with unexpected experiences of things that are usually practiced for a lifetime to be able to experience…
Everything from actual mental telepathy as a natural consequence of acute emotional clarity, to unintentional & spontaneous expressions of asana dances that cause healing and grounding, and countless other organic ‘spiritual masteries’ besides. 
None of these happened by study, practice or intention. Most of them I wasn't even aware of the potential of until after they happened. I simply wasn’t stopping the flow from practising me (and was addressing the blocks to that flow earnestly when they arose).
And this ‘way’ - of seeking first the Kingdom and surrendering to the flow - had also led to experiencing many different forms of spiritual marriage:
The kind that’s centred around the eighth chakra and feels like a union that’s rooted in the universal; the kind that’s centred around the heart and feels like a union that blesses all of creation with love; the kind that’s centred around the sacral chakra and feels like a union that could create its own universes; even the kind that flows throughout the full spirit body with no specific centre, and feels like it must be the ultimate completion.
They all felt like the most profound and intimate marriages… any one of which a practitioner of tantra practices a lifetime to (maybe) experience. Nonetheless, it was ultimately revealed that none of these experiences were a real godly marriage... 
That a godly marriage is a stable three-way ever-present union between a man, a woman and God, which is only able to be consciously and consistently experienced when both partners are sufficiently resolved to be at peace with being fully known, felt and seen inside the relating.
It is the relating I always knew was possible but never could ground throughout any of these long years. 
It is the next phase of my journey, that is only just beginning... 
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